A blog by Jeff Farley at the Otisville - Mt. Hope Presbyterian Church, in Otisville New York.
Monday, July 23, 2018
Monday, July 16, 2018
Sermon from Nehemiah 2:1-8 for July 15
What is the hardest thing you have ever
asked anyone for?
A raise? A job? To marry you? To move
out? For forgiveness?
Big asking is a big challenge!
A clergy friend once told the story of
going to someone’s house to see if this couple would be willing to give a large
gift to a building campaign. They were trying to raise almost $1,000,000 and
wanted to line up a bunch of big donations first, so what needed to be raised
seemed more manageable.
They sat down with this business man and
his wife also a business woman, and the pastor admitted that he was really
nervous. He had prayed about asking as had the other member of the building
pledge team. They sensed that they should be bold, but the jitters were in full
force.
So, they made small talk and then
mentioned the project they had come to talk about. The couple were direct,
“What is it you want?” The pastor decided to be brave. He said, “we would like
you to consider a gift of $10,000.”
The man looked at his wife and she got
their checkbook and gave the pastor a check for $10,000. After some additional
small talk, the pastor and the pledge team member got up to leave and the wife
said to them. “You know, if you had asked for $50,000, we would have written
that check too. It’s alright to ask big.”
There was a book several years ago that
discussed what the author called the “Aladdin Principle”. You remember the story of Aladdin either
from the book, “One Thousand and One Arabian Nights,” or from the Disney movie,
“Aladdin”.
Aladdin gets trapped in a cave where he
finds a special lamp. Finding the lamp was good. Choosing to rub it the right way
was even better. Getting a genie who offered him three wishes was fantastic!
But what was totally amazing was Aladdin
learning how to ask for what he really needed, a skill the author of the Aladdin
Principle book suggests we all need to learn. We need to learn how to ask.
In the biblical book of James the author
points out that we do not have because we do not ask God for what we need, and
when we do, we ask with bad motives.
We are to pray, “give us this day our
daily bread” certainly an invitation to ask for the basics but suggests with
those very words that when we ask we recognize God’s kingdom is in force in our
lives and in our world, “your kingdom come, your will be done, on earth as it
is in heaven.”
Asking is also commended by Jesus in his
Sermon on the Mount where he says, “Ask and it will be given to you; seek
and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you.”
So as a follower of Jesus, how well are
you doing with the asking thing?
What are you asking for? What is your
big ask?
Nehemiah, is in a difficult situation.
He knows there is a problem in Jerusalem with God’s people. Something needs to
be done. He has concluded he is one of those who needs to do something and he
is uniquely in the place to ask for help.
But dare he ask? This is very, very
risky. But..
He decides that he needs to speak freely
to the King. It is not easy, but it is the right thing, to do. He perceives he
has been placed in this unique set of circumstances for this task; to ask.
And he needs to ask big. But he needs also
to ask smart.
He needs to ask in the right context,
and he needs to ask for what the King can actually give him. His asking cannot
be a threat to Artaxerxes, on the contrary, it needs to be clear that this
rather simple request is one that honors the King, that it recognizes his power
and authority.
Just like everyone one of our prayers
should!
When it comes to asking, Nehemiah
becomes a great example of how to ask.
First, pray it through! Don’t ask until
you have it well covered in prayer. There is no point in asking idly. Ask with
clear intent and be prepared to put yourself in as part of the answer!
Next be ready to ask when the
opportunity comes. Nehemiah had thought it through and had his elevator speech
ready.
You know what an elevator speech is? It
is the speech every junior executive is supposed to have ready in case you get
stuck on an elevator with the CEO, so that in your allotted 30 seconds you can
say what really matters.
“Your Majesty, would you be willing to give me letters to the governors
of the provinces west of the Euphrates River, so that I can travel safely to
Judah? I will need timber to rebuild the gates of
the fortress near the temple and more timber to construct the city wall and to
build a place for me to live. And so, I would appreciate a letter to Asaph, who
is in charge of the royal forest.”
Then, make sure you have thought all the
way through. What if the answer to the ask is yes, then what? That is not the
point where you want to scramble to figure it all out! You want to hit the road
running! What will you do, with whom, how, how long will it take, and when will
you be back?
And don’t forget, ask boldly, ask for
what you need, but also be brave and honor the giver. What Nehemiah asked for
were things Artaxerxes could do, not ones he couldn’t. Of course, asking the
God of the universe who can do all things is one thing, asking your boss,
spouse, parent or child is another. What can they do? Ask for that!
And then, follow through! Don’t be shy, and
don’t delay! Get to work using the new gifts you have been given and then… Give thanks with all your heart!
What is the hardest thing you have ever
asked anyone for? And what is it you need to ask for now?
Be faithful my friends!
Amen.
Monday, July 09, 2018
Sermon from Nehemiah 1:1-11 for July 8
You may have heard, Noah James Farley, our grandson, and Brian and Rachel's son, made his
appearance on Independence Day at 8:22pm, possibly a statement about his future
plans!
Right now, his life consists of eating, peeing and sleeping, with a few
hours of staring at the very weird people who keep gurgling over him. Life is
good! And when it isn’t he squalls!
But still, life is simple and simple is
good!
It’s hard for some of us in this very
complex world to understand simplicity. It seems old fashioned and perhaps
uninformed. We like variety and we like choices, we seem to favor complexity
over simplicity. We have gotten used to being able to pick what we like. Over
200 channels on TV and even more online!
But what we miss is the costliness of
choice, our loss of focus, how uncentered we have become, drifting from one
input to another. Try going out for ice cream.
In the old days having chocolate,
vanilla, or a twist was simple, though boring. But it was easy. The customer,
you or I, had only three possible choices. And the vendor had to only make
space for two kinds of ice cream.
Then we put it in a dish or on a cone.
Not a tough choice and one the vendor could easily accommodate. But now, how
about a waffle cone or waffle dish? Sprinkles, chocolate or multicolored? Hot
fudge or caramel sauce, or peanut butter, or strawberry or marshmallow? And 45
flavors! More and more choices.
Now across the whole front of Twin Cone,
or on the board at Blueberry Mountain or at the Riverside Creamery (yes, I like
ice cream, don’t be judgy) are endless possible choices. It’s amazing! It’s
wonderful!
And it is overwhelming!
And costly, not only for the vendor who
has to make sure that all those possible choices are available, but also for
the customer who must pay something extra to make all those choices available.
Simple
is good, especially when it allows us
to cut through complexity and see what is important, what is at stake, what
must be done, and who must do it.
Complexity can obfuscate. It can cloud
our vision. It can make it hard not only to see God, but it can also make it
hard to see what God is doing; and then what you and I must be doing as God’s
people!
We live in a complex world. Facebook,
Instagram, Pinterest, email, text, messaging, snapchat, CNN, Fox, MSNBC, BBC,
PBS, all with stories, both real and unreal, full of details told in such a way
to cloud our understanding, our vision, our calling, pushing us further and
further apart.
We can’t have civil conversations about
much of anything, and even the tiniest differences between us feel at times
like great big iron curtains of separation. Life is not simple. Life is not
clear and obvious. And so, neither is our calling. An old joke tells the story.
It goes:
I once saw this guy on a bridge about to
jump. I said, "Don't do it!"
He said, "Why not? Nobody loves
me."
I said, "God loves you. Do you
believe in God?"
He said, "Yes."
I said, "Are you a Christian?"
He said, "Yes, a Christian."
I said, "Me, too! Protestant or
Catholic?"
He said, "Protestant."
I said, "Me, too! What
franchise?"
He said, "Baptist."
I said, "Me, too! Northern Baptist
or Southern Baptist?"
He said, "Northern Baptist."
I said, "Me, too! Northern
Conservative Baptist or Northern Liberal Baptist?"
He said, "Northern Conservative
Baptist."
I said, "Me, too! Northern
Conservative Baptist Great Lakes Region, or Northern Conservative Baptist
Eastern Region?"
He said, "Northern Conservative
Baptist Great Lakes Region."
I said, "Me, too! Northern
Conservative Baptist Great Lakes Region Council of 1879, or Northern
Conservative Baptist Great Lakes Region Council of 1912?"
He said, "Northern Conservative
Baptist Great Lakes Region Council of 1912."
I said, "Die, heretic!" And I
pushed him over.
Walls of separation.
For God’s people simplicity and clarity
of vision is essential. We need to see who is on the Lord’s side and it is not always
just the folks who agree with us. Rather it is the people God has called to
labor beside us.
We, as a church mission, are thinking of going to Texas to do some flood remediation
there. What we need is people who will do God’s work, not necessarily ones who
think exactly the same things!
Nehemiah could have gotten caught up in
the complexity of life in Persia. It was an amazing place and an amazing time. Here
he was a Jewish man, an immigrant who practiced a minority religion, with
remarkable responsibilities right in the middle of the Persian Empire.
He held the position of cup bearer, a
position with the highest security clearance. Because of palace intrigue and
the possibility of poison, he was to protect the king, and his confidential
relationship gave him a position of great influence!
So, he could have focused his time and
energy on the Persian equivalent of the Game of Thrones, living and working as
he did at the behest of Artaxerxes,
king of the Persians.
Instead, what worried Nehemiah that
November, was not Persian politics, not court intrigue, but instead what God
was doing with God’s people. In all that you have heard and seen of
contemporary life, where do you see God at work?
He had heard that the Jewish people back
in Jerusalem, the 2% of the Jews who had gone home with Ezra after Cyrus the
Persian had defeated the Babylonians and released them back home, were in a bad
situation, and he was overwhelmed with grief. When was the last time you
grieved over what is happening to our brothers and sisters in Christ here in
the US and around the world?
Nehemiah was just a cupbearer to the
King, but God had plans for Nehemiah!
What are you? Just a teacher? Just a
farmer? Just a …?
The truth is God has plans for you too!
There is more to Nehemiah’s story, and
over the next couple of week’s we’ll tell it, but for right now, here is a
question we can wrestle with: Why has God got you where you are, and what is it
God has next for you to do?
Be faithful my friends!
Amen.
Communion by Candy Burnett
Communion -
FYI
July 1, 2018
When I
realized this would be a Communion Sunday I thought it might be a good idea to
explain some things about Communion. Often when I observe Communion from the
choir loft, I think that I appreciate the service more because know somethings
about it that others perhaps do not. The reason being that I, and several
others Elders, have taken Communion Training which authorizes us to administer
the Sacrament in the absence of the minister, or to someone outside the church setting.
So, “How many here take communion?” That was one of the
first questions at one training session we took. The answer is, none of
you. The sacrament is a gift and is
given to you. So, you don’t take it - you receive
it! Well, sometimes I have to remind
myself of that because for years, I thought I was taking communion.
Let’s talk about what communion is not
-
1. It is not assurance of entry into any more
‘worthy’ status (entry into heaven)
2. It is not Body or Blood. In the Presbyterian
Church, we do not believe the elements of bread and juice change into the
actual body and blood of Christ. In some other religions, it is thought there
is a transformation. For us, they are symbols.
3. It is not
a Snack. So, coming to receive it,
should be done with thought.
4. It is not
a Secret (if delivering Communion to
the home-bound) In fact, every time communion is served, whether in the church
or in a home or hospital etc., it is reported and recorded in the Session
minutes.
Now let’s see what Communion is:
For one thing - it is one of two
Sacraments of the Presbyterian Church USA.
The other one
is - Baptism.
If you don’t mind I am going to read
part of the Theology of the Lord’s Supper from the PCUSA Book of Order. I feel
it is very interesting and meaningful.
“The Lord’s Supper (or Eucharist) is the sign and seal of our
communion with the crucified and risen Lord. Jesus shared meals with his
followers throughout his earthly life and ministry—common suppers, miraculous
feasts, and the covenant commemorations of the people of God. Jesus spoke of
himself as the bread of life, and the true vine, in whom we are branches. On
the night before his death, Jesus shared bread and wine with his disciples. He
spoke of the bread and wine as his body and blood, signs of the new covenant
and told the disciples to remember him by keeping this feast. On the day of his
resurrection, Jesus made himself known to his disciples in the breaking of the
bread. The disciples continued to devote themselves to the apostles’ teaching,
fellowship, prayers, and the common meal. As Paul wrote, when we share the
bread and cup in Jesus’ name, “we who are many are one body” (1 Cor. 10:17). The Sacrament of the Lord’s Supper offers an abundant feast of theological meaning, including: thanksgiving to God the Father; remembrance of Jesus Christ; invocation of the Holy Spirit; communion in the body of Christ; and a meal of the realm of God. The Re- formed tradition understands the Lord’s Supper to be a sign of God’s covenant. The bread of the Lord’s Supper is linked with the bread of Passover and the gift of manna in the wilderness. The Lord’s Supper thus connects us with God’s saving power and providential care from generation to generation. Like the offering of sacrifices, a sign of Israel’s thanks- giving for God’s faithfulness, the Lord’s Supper is a sacrifice of praise and a sign of our gratitude for God’s steadfast love. The Lord’s Supper represents God’s gracious invitation to an everlasting covenant. The Lord’s Supper also reflects our calling to feed others as we have been fed, and offers a foretaste of that heavenly banquet when God will wipe away every tear and swallow up death forever.
The Lord’s Supper enacts and seals what the Word proclaims: God’s sustaining grace offered to all people. The Lord’s Supper is at once God’s gift of grace, God’s means of grace, and God’s call to respond to that grace. Through the Lord’s Supper, Jesus Christ nourishes us in righteousness, faithfulness, and discipleship. Through the Lord’s Supper, the Holy Spirit renews the Church in its identity and sends the Church to mission in the world.”
The Book of Order also explains who is
responsible for the Lord’s Supper.
1. I already
explained that Elders may take Communion Training to administer the sacrament.
We used to have to take it every year or asked to be commissioned again by a
Presbytery committee. Now, I think they made it so the training is done every three
years.
Communion elements may also be taken
from the table by Deacons and Elders to the homebound, if requested. In that
case, the Deacons and Elders do not need the training, because it is brought
from the church service. It is an extension of the Table. There are guidelines
as to how to do that as well. It should be done by two or more people to
represent the community of the church.
Those that have been trained may
provide the elements and administer the communion on another day, which in that
case, the elements are not coming from the table and a service already held.
2. Who
decides when Communion is served and the method of Communion?
The Session decides. The Session is
the board of Ruling Elders elected by the congregation. They decide how often
if is served. Our church has regular Communion on the first Sunday of the month
and at special services such as Maundy Thursday and the 11 o’clock Christmas
Eve. Service. They may also authorize it to be served at a Christian marriage,
ordinations and installations, ministry to the sick. Our session has granted a
blanket authorization for communion to the ill as there may not be time for an
individual authorization.
The Goshen Presbyterian Church
celebrates Communion every Sunday. According to the Book of Order, it may be
celebrated as often as desired but must be served at least quarterly.
The Session decides whether it will be
done by Intinction or Pew Communion. We generally use Intinction and save Pew Communion
for special services, such as World Wide Communion Sunday in Oct.
Why one over
the other?
Time - mostly. It takes more time to
prepare, serve and clean up for Pew Com. Although, to me, there is something
special about holding the elements and taking them all together or on Maundy
Thursday, holding that cup and hearing “This cup is the new covenant, sealed
with my blood, shed for you, for the forgiveness of sins.”
While we are
talking about the elements -
Pita Bread - there
is really nothing super special about Pita bread other than the fact it doesn’t
fall apart when one dips it in the juice.
Some churches
even bake their own bread. We have even used hard rolls in a pinch when someone
has forgotten to get pita. And now, we have rice crackers for those with gluten
issues.
Wine or Grape
Juice - we use grape juice. We used to use wine and grape juice but when
we became aware that some recovering alcoholics had some concerns about
possibly get the wrong one, the Session years ago decided we would only serve
juice.
Leftovers? - You may wonder what is done with the
leftover bread and juice. According to the Book of Order - the Session should make the decision but in
keeping with the Reformed understanding of the Sacrament & principles of
good Stewardship, it may be consumed or returned to the earth. So, you may take
the remaining bread and eat it or use it in a way of consumption. Here, someone
usually takes it to feed the birds. The juice may be drank or poured out on the
ground rather than down a drain.
We do ask
that you hold the pita holder, not the pita, when ripping a piece off for
cleanliness reasons.
Who may receive Communion?
It has been that all those who are
baptized and believe that Jesus Christ is their Lord & Savior may partake. I believe, now even those who have not been
baptized but desire to receive it, may.
May Children receive? - Our church
leaves it up to parents but recommend that they have instructed them and that
they understand what they are doing, after all, remember, it is not a snack.
Generally, after they have made their confirmation.
How many times may you receive Communion on a Sunday? - as often as one wants. Some of us are at more than one service
in a day and are free to partake at all services.
The Book of
Order also provides the Sections of the Service.
You have probably noticed that the
service of the Lord’s Supper doesn’t change much and that is because there are
basic requirements to the service.
Listen for
them when we are at the Table.
They include:
1. Invitation -
2. Great Prayer of Thanksgiving - which we do not include. Some of you
who have come from other churches probably wonder why. I did ask Jeff and he
said, time. The Great Prayer can be two pages long. It includes some responsive
phrasing and is often included in Worship Hymnals. Ours hymnal does not, our
older one did. I have copies if anyone would like one or would like to see it.
3. Lord’s Prayer - we say the
prayer earlier in the service so we don’t repeat it.
4. Words of Institution - you will
hear me say, “Hear now the words of institution”
5. Communion of the People -
distribution of the elements
6. Prayer Following Communion
7. Creed - which we say earlier
I hope you
found this informative and that you maybe learned something new or have a
deeper appreciation of the Lord’s Supper.
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